Looking for advice: ENFP shedding outer layer friendships post pandemic

2021.12.06 01:37 ThreeSummersNowHoney Looking for advice: ENFP shedding outer layer friendships post pandemic

Friends of reddit, I’m looking for some advice as well as wanting to know if anyone out there is going through something similar to me.
I’m an ENFP through and through. I know that many ENFPs tend to crave more deep and meaningful relationships. Before the pandemic, I had lots of friends and social acquaintances and could easily throw a raging party.
However, when the pandemic hit, I found myself investing time in my close friendships (about 6 different friends). There were a lot of people in my life that I no longer thought I needed to or cared to check in on (bluntly speaking), and this was very much mutual.
Now that we are emerging from lockdowns and socialising in person a lot more, these people who I did not once contact in the last 2 years are reaching out to organise catch-ups, and on some level I really can’t be bothered anymore and don’t see the point. I know that I am going through some kind of growth phase that I want to get to the bottom of.
The people I’m seeking advice and opinions from are saying that not every friendship/acquaintance relationship needs to have a point, and it’s ok to go to the catch-up for the sake (e.g. an hour or so every year) but I’m not convinced.
A few questions:

I’m quite a social person generally, so in terms of having my ancillary social needs met I think I can have these met by my work colleague etc.
Thanks for your time!
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John Lithgow as Trinity? He's going to be in a couple episodes
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Real quiet lately.
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View Poll
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2021.12.06 01:36 recessbadger45 Joe Brady for OC

thoughts on Joe Brady being OC next Year
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2021.12.06 01:36 AKanadian47 Am I The Only One That Couldn't Care Less About The Cosmetics Or The Game Modes?

Feel like the gun play and the sound design is so good! Kills feel super rewarding the game runs really smooth and never crashes.
Just haven't had this much fun with a Halo game in a long long time. And the last time I did I don't think there was much in the way of cosmetics anyway.
I can understand the inability to pick game mode is kind of frustrating but all of the modes are fun.
Either way I just don't think it's all that bad. Pretty good actually.
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2021.12.06 01:36 Pnex84 I'm so pissed right now! I can't believe they would completely bury the history of NXT like that.

Just because I started shitting on NXT the moment AEW arrived and wouldn't shut up about how much it sucked and needed to change doesn't give them the right to change like that!
How the hell is M'Dub supposed to poach guys from 2.0 if all the new wrestlers featured are real athletes with personalities and gimmicks?
Screw you McHiltler for changing a show I don't watch but make sure to be in every live thread to hate on.
Fuck this company
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2021.12.06 01:36 Butkevinwhy Hey guys! Which two characters would you like to see next on Madness Character Slander? Ive done Auditor, Sheriff, Sanford, and Deimos.

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How long does it take for them to send an confirmation email after purchase
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2021.12.06 01:36 thatone111111 take notes

this is how you take pain, use it as fuel
how to go on crumbs of love, go without
to much on your plate, eating with bare hands
hope falling through fingers like sand, using the hurting
is my brand, starting to enjoy when they can't stand, just glad im not the same
when all you have is doubt, no one in your corner, if it sounds foreign consider yourself lucky, not everyone
has it easy, fires built me, sight to see, making moves in a new way, no longer the lowest rung, overcoming voices around me, sung of hate day in and out, know what im about.
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I was signed out of my instagram account for unusual activity but when i try to log back in I get a “Sorry, there was a problem. Please try again.” message. I have my instagram account under my email and the forget password option isn’t working since i’m not getting the emails sent. There’s isn’t a way for me to contact instagram. Does anyone have solution? I really don’t wanna make another instagram account.
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2021.12.06 01:36 miawallace_readit The final count down.. *duh nuh nuh nuh, duh nuh nuh nuh nuh*

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2021.12.06 01:36 QuietReflection9728 Can’t stop

True story, I got that level of crazy turning me.
To see you as you are, love every fault and flaw
Open up and show it all, to press against your walls, see your eyes and movements of your jaw
A little bit? Or would you want it all?
Is there a point to talking? You’d see the physical change shocking but hey, i keep on rocking
There is no shame, I got no reason to refrain
You’re on my brain in more ways than one…you’d blow mine even when it isn’t a physical state.
If you only knew behind the rhymes what goes on in my mind when thoughts of you pass by and choose to stay behind
You make me wonder, there is no lie.
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2021.12.06 01:36 grlclldkll Partner was about to throw the whole thing away. Including the shade???

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2021.12.06 01:36 fakewomans struggles with sa

i was molested by a woman. or i was sexually assaulted by a woman. or i was raped by a woman. or i wasn't. i dont know. thats my problem. heres my story.
i was in 9th grade, i was going through a breakup (as hard as a 9th grade could even be) and my family was out of town for a night. i was staying home by myself. the plan was to stay by myself until around 7pm, then go down to my neighbor's house to stay the night.
i was really sad about losing my boyfriend at the time, so i decided to invite over my friend. she was a junior, while i was a freshman. for reference i was 14 and she was 17, we are both girls. my only intent was to have someone to just hang out with to distract myself from the breakup. my parents had no idea, and i wasn't allowed to have anyone over when they weren't home.
the girl, who i'll call B knew my ex-boyfriend, and she heard of the breakup so she naturally wanted to know about it. we started drinking, because we were teenagers, and things progressed and we ended up snuggling in my bed, listening to music and talking. i felt so comforted and she told me that she was the only person in my life that hadn't betrayed me. i believed her.
she started to take off her clothes and prompted me to do the same. i've never been in that kind of situation before and i didn't know exactly what to do. i complied, because she was older and had more experience. i'm not going to go into heavy detail, but she performed sexual acts on me. she didn't ask if it was okay, she didn't ask if i wanted it, i didn't say yes, i didn't say anything at all. they say you have fight or flight instincts but i just froze completely. afterwards she made me food from my kitchen, and we just sat on the couch until she left. i felt dazed and numb after it happened.
i even bragged to some friends about having sex, but i think that might have been me trying to cope. i dont know what happened to me, and i think this makes it harder for me to heal, when i dont even exactly know what i'm healing from. i feel like all of the stories i ever hear, its very cut and dry what happened. and the fact that it was a girl just makes it worse.
i see a therapist but i haven't told her because i don't want the police dragged into it. im not quite sure what the rules are on reporting things like this as a therapist.
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